Archive for June, 2009

Staying Well

Jun. 28th 2009

“The doctor of the future will give no medicine, but will interest his patients in the care of the human body, in diet, and in the cause and prevention of disease.” – Thomas Edison

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Spring Off Reality

Jun. 24th 2009


Have you ever seen the acrobats on the big trampolines, or the people in the circus on the big bounding nets? And they hit that net and they spring forth into flight. Well, the moment that they hit the net, that’s like the platform of your life. But it is the flying through the air that is the main event.
We want you to think of your “now reality” as nothing more than the net that is springing you — but it is the flight through the air that is your life.
So many of you, you hit that net and then you lay on your stomach, and then you wrap your fingers and toes into it, and you put your face tight into it, and you say, “I’ve got to face reality.” And we say, you didn’t come forth to face reality. You came forth to spring off of reality. You came forth to let the reality be the basis from which you take flight.
Abraham-Hicks Philadelphia, PA — 11/7/1999

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Insatiable Love Affair

Jun. 22nd 2009


(Here’s an essay I was asked to write about Gretsch Guitars)


Insatiable Love Affair

The plastic guitar at age two wasn’t enough, and when i saw the Beatles on the tele at age 4, I fell deeply in love with guitar.

A couple of acoustic guitars came, one fake that had nails for two of
the tuning pegs, and one real that actually stayed in tune. And finally
lessons. But I needed an electric guitar. An american guitar. I wanted
to bend strings & play the solos I’d been learning on an electric. I
was playing chord solos too, learning how to play legato & hold notes
while others note moved & I wanted to hear more sustain.

Because of George Harrison I wanted a Gretsch guitar! And at 12, in
1972 my parents bought me a 1961 Gretsch Anniversary model. Whoa! The passion went deep. It was wildly known the best guitars were American made. George had wanted an American guitar since he was a kid. His lass="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Verdana, -webkit-fantasy;">Gretsch Duo Jet was his prized possession. It was his first American guitar & he kept it his whole life.

George & I were both influenced by super guitar players. Masters.
Players who had a feel & tone that personified the notes they chose.
Serious guitar players that were so clever & articulate the music
flowed & looked effortless to create. That’s the mark of an expert. It
looks so easy when they play and it sounds brilliant. It’s all about
the touch & feel; the magic happens with your hands, at your fingertips & you need an instrument that can respond to your whispers & moans.

A Gretsch neck has always felt perfect in my small hand. I love the
round shape & made-for-each-other fit. Gretsch guitars have a good
weight to them. The workmanship is smooth, every line & crease, every curve is finished. No rough spots, nothing feels dinky. I still have my ’61 Anniversary model. I’ve written many songs with it. This guitar’s every shape & form is in my muscle memory. Playing it is like visiting a dear friend. In 2000 I picked up a Country Classic Jr., similar to the Country Gentleman George bought in 1963. This body size couldn’t be more comfortable. It was love at first touch. I feel like George when I’m playing this guitar. There’s a magical essence, chemical reaction, blend of wood & soul when I play Beatle songs on this guitar.

I get verklempt when I think of Gretsch guitars. They’ve loomed so
large in my legendary Beatle life’s frame work. George, Gretsch,
George, Gretsch, George, Gretsch. They’re in the blueprint of my
childhood, the groundwork of my musicianship, the discovery of music & life itself.

Lauren Passarelli ~ This Day Came


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Jun. 21st 2009

For what it’s worth it’s never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit; start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There’s no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it & I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you find the strength to start all over again.

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How Do You Get To Carnegie Hall?

Jun. 18th 2009

Well the punch line of the old joke is PRACTICE!

Right?
Well this story isn’t about Carnegie Hall. It’s a true story about Symphony Hall in Boston, MA.
I was attending a private function inside Symphony Hall where a friend of mine was performing & I happened to be dressed all in black. After her performance we got to see the The Boston Pops perform as well. They were both wonderful concerts.
When the night was over I was standing outside Symphony Hall watching my friend’s equipment as she went to fetch her car. The audience was pouring out into the street & as many passed me they said enthusiastically, “YOU WERE FABULOUS TONIGHT!” or “GREAT CONCERT!” & “OH YOU WERE ALL FANTASTIC!” & “THANK YOU SO MUCH, LOVELY SHOW!”
Inside my head, stunned with, “wait, what? me?, oh no, I’m just, well sure, but you see I’m…” because they thought they were thanking a symphony player or ‘praps even my friend. Yet there was no time to explain & I didn’t want to offend or appear rude. So standing tall (as tall as I could) dressed in black, waiting with equipment, instantly impersonating a Boston Pops member, I smiled graciously & thanked them warmly for attending. At least their thoughtful accolades for the Pops should be received & reciprocated, I thought nervously.
How do you get to Symphony Hall?
~ Stand on the sidewalk dressed in black with music equipment at your feet.
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DACHSHUNDS ARE LOVE BUGS

Jun. 16th 2009





  • they have the least doggie odor
  • they don’t shed
  • they love being with you
  • they have a tremendous sense of humor & memory. when they do something that makes you laugh. they’ll do it again & again.
  • they’re extremely loyal, protective & friendly.
  • I love their adorable expressive faces & their extremely cute feet!
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Guitar Players & Nail Care

Jun. 14th 2009


I love playing with a pick. I love playing with pick & fingers & I love finger picking. They give me different sounds & feels & ability to create the guitar parts I want to play. Whether it’s steel string or nylon eventually with much playing comes much wearing down of the nails. Here’s what I’ve been experimenting with over the years & a great guitarist’s nail article that gets into it all.

James Taylor told me about his use of nail wraps so that’s what I used for years. It’s a great warm sound that I love & it sounds like his guitar sound. In fact he’s taping a DVD where he’ll teach how he plays nine of his songs & he asked me for my opinion. I asked him to include a special feature section where he’ll show us his nail care & how he applies & takes care of his nail wraps. He puts on a layer of glue & then a nail wrap & after it dries & he trims it he does it twice again so that he has 3 layers. There are 3 kinds of wraps: silk, fiber glass & nylon.
Classical players use ping balls & glue a piece of the ball under their remaining nail. I haven’t tried this yet.
I love the sound I get with guitar player nails. They send you pieces of flat, plastic material & you cut & shape & trim & file & glue. And the thickness of the nail is set. With the wraps & the gel you create that thickness for each nail yourself.
There are Gel Nails, nothing harder, super tough & resilient. I bought this kit from Germany called, Power Nails. I love the sound of these as well & I liked not using nail or crazy glue. Turns out this nail product is Pat Metheny’s favorite. I know JT was sent this Power Nail kit but I don’t know if he ever tried the gel nails & if he liked them. You can buy some gel products on line & there are videos on you tube that better show how to extend the gel & be a nail when yours is to short. But I found that glue & gel seriously weaken your nail underneath. They get so soft & breakable.
There’s also Rico Nails where you use non toxic adhesives & surgical tape for extra support and when you’re done playing you can easily remove them without hurting your nails. You can just put them on to play & take them off when you’re done. They are a thinner material consequently a thinner, brighter guitar sound for me.
I use thin strings & prefer thicker guitar picks about 1.5mm but not necessarily super thick finger nails. I may try adhesive with the guitar player nails next!
Many players don’t bother with their nails at all. They just use their finger tips. I have been trying to prefer this for about a month now. Just for the ease of it & nothing toxic. But I don’t like how the strings feel or respond to me & I don’t prefer the sound.
What’s a guitarist to do?
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12/22/09 added new discovery
in a few months your nails do recover from the softening breaking effects of nail glue, crazy glue & nail gel…
Master guitarist, Lou Arnold bought me a bottle of


Onymyrrhe Natural Nail Growth Accelerator & that’s an amazing healthy product for nails.

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Making the Most of a Spark (excerpt)

Jun. 14th 2009


“Essentially, I want good company in my creative life, and I want to provide that to my fellow creators. I want to help other people love their work so that they keep going and give it the very best attention and skill they have, and I want that fostering in return. I want to make the most of my spark and enjoy the warmth and light of my friends making the most of theirs, too.” ~ Kate Chadbourne

What a fabulous way to say it! ~ L Pass

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Life Story

Jun. 12th 2009


“And now it is your Life Story and it is you who play the leading roll. The stage is set, the time is now, and the place wherever you are. Each passing second a new link in the endless chain of Time. The drama of Life is a continuous story – ever new, ever changing, and ever wondrous to behold.”

~ Virginia Lee Burton
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Power of A Beatle

Jun. 11th 2009


“The verdict from Paul McCartney’s show at his Coachella debut on Friday? Never underestimate the power of a Beatle… The night belonged to Paul.” — LOS ANGELES TIMES

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